beckdawg
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This is a touchy subject so I'll try to be gentle with this... short version here is I am inclined to believe her but 2 things bother me about this. 1) she throws all the blame on him. I've seen enough marriages break up to know that it's rarely just one person. The second thing about this is she's not really clear about what this alleged physical abuse entailed and after mentioning it the one time she starts talking about emotional abuse. I don't mean to make light of emotional abuse but to me that's an entirely different level than talking about physically abusing someone because emotional abuse goes hand and hand with relationships breaking up. The stuff she describes could be basically any relationship break up ever. That doesn't make Russell a criminal just makes him a bad husband/person.
What would make him a criminal is the physical abuse. But there's a wide range of things "physically mistreated" can mean. I mean that could mean anything from pushing her onto a bed or something to punching her a la ray rice or something even worse. Based on the way it's described I'm inclined to believe it's more on the softer side especially given the fact that she apparently didn't report it to the police and apparently felt it was enough of a non-issue to just continue going on with her day to day.
I guess what I'm feeling is if you're going to put that shit into the public light on someone she knows is in the public eye you better damn well be crystal clear what it is that happened because doing what she did people are going to assume it's the worst imaginable thing and that's a label he'll never live down. If he actually did something terrible then he certainly deserves it but if you're going to air shit in public be clear what he did.
This is a touchy subject so I'll try to be gentle with this... short version here is I am inclined to believe her but 2 things bother me about this. 1) she throws all the blame on him. I've seen enough marriages break up to know that it's rarely just one person. The second thing about this is she's not really clear about what this alleged physical abuse entailed and after mentioning it the one time she starts talking about emotional abuse. I don't mean to make light of emotional abuse but to me that's an entirely different level than talking about physically abusing someone because emotional abuse goes hand and hand with relationships breaking up. The stuff she describes could be basically any relationship break up ever. That doesn't make Russell a criminal just makes him a bad husband/person.
What would make him a criminal is the physical abuse. But there's a wide range of things "physically mistreated" can mean. I mean that could mean anything from pushing her onto a bed or something to punching her a la ray rice or something even worse. Based on the way it's described I'm inclined to believe it's more on the softer side especially given the fact that she apparently didn't report it to the police and apparently felt it was enough of a non-issue to just continue going on with her day to day.
I guess what I'm feeling is if you're going to put that shit into the public light on someone she knows is in the public eye you better damn well be crystal clear what it is that happened because doing what she did people are going to assume it's the worst imaginable thing and that's a label he'll never live down. If he actually did something terrible then he certainly deserves it but if you're going to air shit in public be clear what he did.