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I will keep this as short as possible.
I am interested to hear what others would do in this situation.
I have 3 siblings from my mother that I grew up with.. I am the youngest, and only one from my father who passed many many years ago.
I have a brother that is a drama queen, and goes on jags of getting his panties in a bunch and not talking to others for years. Him and I jave not talked outside of work for 9 years. (I got him a job with my company and occasionally have to deal with him.)
Now- I jave always known my dad had 3 kids with another wife, but never had contact with anyone on his side of the family.
Recently, I heard from a friend that someone was searching for me on a neighborhood Facebook group.
I looked in to who was looking and contacted them.
Turns out to be my half sister. She had been looking since 89.
She is over the moon at having found me.
To the point. She had gotten ahold of and spoken to my drama queen brother about 6 years back, they had many conversations. He undoubtedly accepted her as legit.
The prick refused to give her any help locating me, despite knowing my personal and business contact info.
This poor lady spent 6 more years hunting for me.
Doesn't matter why his cunt is sandy with me- i honestly have no idea, just his drama.
Point is, if some woman puts 31 years in to seeking out family, and you could end the hunt, wouldn't you?
So let's say that happened to you. Would you tear my brother a new one or just let it go and ignore it?
I am interested to hear what others would do in this situation.
I have 3 siblings from my mother that I grew up with.. I am the youngest, and only one from my father who passed many many years ago.
I have a brother that is a drama queen, and goes on jags of getting his panties in a bunch and not talking to others for years. Him and I jave not talked outside of work for 9 years. (I got him a job with my company and occasionally have to deal with him.)
Now- I jave always known my dad had 3 kids with another wife, but never had contact with anyone on his side of the family.
Recently, I heard from a friend that someone was searching for me on a neighborhood Facebook group.
I looked in to who was looking and contacted them.
Turns out to be my half sister. She had been looking since 89.
She is over the moon at having found me.
To the point. She had gotten ahold of and spoken to my drama queen brother about 6 years back, they had many conversations. He undoubtedly accepted her as legit.
The prick refused to give her any help locating me, despite knowing my personal and business contact info.
This poor lady spent 6 more years hunting for me.
Doesn't matter why his cunt is sandy with me- i honestly have no idea, just his drama.
Point is, if some woman puts 31 years in to seeking out family, and you could end the hunt, wouldn't you?
So let's say that happened to you. Would you tear my brother a new one or just let it go and ignore it?